Bounce therapy

Young people with ADHD are prone to addiction. Absolutely true! According to research, young people who use medication for this are less likely to use drugs. “Preventively fill them with pills before they start self-medicating.” That is what many a psychiatrist calls. Absolute nonsense! They already use drugs! The psychiatrist is the dealer and a lot of money is made from it. We are there and look at it. Medikinet, Ritalin and Concerta are the most famous ‘legal’ drugs that thousands of young people swallow every day. All three fall under the… Read More

Socratic conversation to solve problems

What is Socratic motivation?People do not change under duress. Exercise your coercion and it will irrevocably go wrong with the matter you want to change. The people involved only want to change if they want to, of their own free will. Socratic motivation is about inner motivation and not about the coercion of external advice. Circumstances and the moment play an important role in this. If you want to change people against their will, you will experience anger, sadness, frustration, irritation and you will be perceived as pushy. During Socratic motivation, a… Read More

The drink theater

I still find the most beautiful professional literature the written ‘lifestories’. Stories written by the person himself or by others. Pauper Paradise is such a story. A raw family history of poverty and alcoholism. “As kind-hearted as he was, and how pleasant it could be if he went to oranges with a lot of theater on special days, the father could not be maintained at home.” Just a sentence from the first chapter of the book. Real life and immediately hit. Such are addicts. Everywhere a ‘theater’ is made. When we talk… Read More

Do you have a dream?

Dream, believing, inspiration, leadership

Vince Lombardi: Not of granite

Mindset, coaching